Philippine law recognizes that young adults entering marriage may benefit from their parents' guidance. The Family Code requires either parental consent or parental advice depending on the applicant's age — and each carries its own legal weight and consequence if missing.
Parental Consent (Ages 18–20)
If either applicant is 18 years old and above but below 21, the law requires written parental consent before the Local Civil Registrar can issue a marriage license. This is governed by Article 14 of the Family Code of the Philippines.
Parental Advice (Ages 21–25)
If either applicant is 21 years old and above but below 25, the law requires parental advice — not consent. This is governed by Article 15 of the Family Code. The distinction matters: at this age, your parents cannot legally stop you from marrying, but the law gives them a formal channel to share their views.
At a Glance
| Age Bracket | Document Required | Effect If Missing or Unfavorable |
|---|---|---|
| Below 18 | Cannot marry | Marriage is void |
| 18 to below 21 | Parental Consent | License will not be issued; if solemnized without it, marriage is voidable |
| 21 to below 25 | Parental Advice | 3-month waiting period before license is issued |
| 25 and above | None required | — |
Where to Obtain These Documents
You do not apply for these documents at a government office — the documents are prepared by your parents (or guardian), then submitted alongside your marriage license application.
- 1 Your parent or guardian prepares the document. It can be handwritten or typed — use our free downloadable templates below.
- 2 Have it notarized at a law office or notary public. Both parental consent and parental advice must be under oath — the Civil Registrar will not accept an unsworn document.
- 3 Submit the notarized document to the Local Civil Registrar of the city or municipality where either the bride or groom habitually resides, together with all other marriage license requirements.
We have prepared sample drafts for both documents on our Free Downloads page — formatted as sworn statements with notarization sections, ready to fill in and bring to a notary.
What If Parents Refuse or Are Unavailable?
Consent refused (ages 18–20)
The Local Civil Registrar cannot issue the license. The applicant may petition the court for an order authorizing the marriage if there is no valid reason for the refusal.
Advice refused (ages 21–24)
Submit a written statement that parental advice was sought but refused or not given. The 3-month waiting period applies. After 3 months, the license can be issued without the advice.
Parents are deceased
The surviving parent or legal guardian provides the document. If both parents are deceased, the court-appointed legal guardian gives consent. Bring the guardianship documents.
Parents are abroad
The document can be executed before a Philippine consular officer or a notary public in the foreign country, then authenticated (apostilled or consularized) before submission in the Philippines.
"At 18, marriage requires a parent's signature. At 21, it requires a parent's letter. At 25, it requires only your own heart."
Practical Reminders
For a complete list of all marriage license requirements, see our guide: Requirements to Acquire a Marriage License →