Event Planning 101 — Before I Do Bridal Fair
52nd Edition·September 12–13, 2026·Megatrade Hall 1, SM Megamall
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Plan with Peace and Confidence · Event Planning

Things Not to Do
When Planning a Wedding

Honest reminders about comparison traps, mental health, red flags, and what not to do.

When it comes to planning your wedding you're going to have a lot of ideas and hear a lot of opinions. There's no one-size-fits-all solution — you have to decide on your vision and then build towards making it a reality.

A Wedding Celebration is One Day. Marriage is Hopefully Forever.

Don't succumb to the comparison game. Your marriage is unique and your wedding is unique. Be true to yourself and your wedding budget. Do not spend beyond your means.

Don't Try to Do It All by Yourself.

Get your fiancé, family and friends involved because planning a wedding can be time-consuming and stressful. Wedding planning is a great time to bond with your entourage and a chance for them to know the "team".

Don't Neglect Your Mental Health.

Wedding planning can be stressful. Don't forget to take a break. Do some fun stuff, exercise and have your "me" time. Another way to relieve stress is by using essential oils while meditating. Brides of Simply Beautiful Events get a 5ml diluted essential oil that they can use anytime, anywhere to help them with their wedding anxiety and sleep.

Don't Neglect Your Fiancé.

Be mindful of their mood, attitude and stress. Be sure to check on your fiancé once in a while. Too much wedding planning can add stress to your relationship as well.

Don't Ignore Red Flags.

Online wedding scam is so prominent these days — watch out for vendors who do not want to have video calls with you, hide behind a company logo as their profile photo, or don't declare their office address. These are just some of the reasons why attending an actual bridal fair such as Before I Do is important.

Also watch out for red flags on how you and your fiancé handle money matters and decision-making. Planning a wedding is a stage in your relationship that gives you a glimpse of how things will be after your honeymoon.

Don't Forget to Do Your Research.

📥 Download our Event Budget Planner to help you with your budget. Don't worry. It's free!

Visiting a bridal fair gives you an idea of how much a certain service would cost. You don't have to book vendors on your very first visit. Attend FREE food tasting events such as one of Hizon's Catering at Before I Do. It gives you a chance to taste exquisite dishes and compare their offerings with other caterers.

Wedding vendors would showcase their products and services at bridal fairs and attending one allows you to visualize your wedding. Narrow down your choices and use the Event Budget Planner to determine if you are still within your budget.

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